Often times we are confronted with the metaphor of building walls.
This is usually in conjunction with emotions versus the literal act of building a barricade/obstruction/barrier.
What I have always been brought to understand is a confrontational mannerism of breaking down these walls is productive and somehow only the start of an even more grueling process to emotional healing.
However... I have been enlightened, inadvertently, to the farce behind this mentality.
The truth of the matter is that by doing things so hastily and without hesitation causes a lack of thinking anything through. It is done in a manner that guarantees that the side/after-effects consequentially cause destruction.
This is usually in conjunction with emotions versus the literal act of building a barricade/obstruction/barrier.
What I have always been brought to understand is a confrontational mannerism of breaking down these walls is productive and somehow only the start of an even more grueling process to emotional healing.
However... I have been enlightened, inadvertently, to the farce behind this mentality.
The truth of the matter is that by doing things so hastily and without hesitation causes a lack of thinking anything through. It is done in a manner that guarantees that the side/after-effects consequentially cause destruction.
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